DGC 055 – Your Child Is Not Your Witness

About this episode  

In this episode of the Daddy Got Custody Podcast, Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad and 27-year custody veteran, talks about one of the easiest mistakes parents make during a custody battle: turning their child into part of the case.

Fred explains why children should never become witnesses, messengers, investigators, therapists, or emotional support for either parent. He breaks down the difference between listening to your child and interrogating them, why asking “Who do you want to live with?” can create enormous pressure, and how using children to carry messages or gather information can damage both the child and your credibility.

You’ll also hear practical advice on what to do when a child voluntarily shares something serious, how to respond without coaching or leading them, and why fathers should create a safe zone where kids can simply be kids instead of participants in the legal fight.

Most importantly, this episode is a reminder that the goal is not just to win a custody case. It is to protect your child from carrying adult conflict.

Your child should know they are loved — not know your litigation strategy.